Understanding the Three Phases of Feminine Transformation
The IVP Woman is the embodiment of the upright Empress card in the Tarot – she who has claimed her throne through fire, water, and earth. She is Ingenious. Valiant. Powerhouse. But unlike the fairy tale version of empowerment, the IVP Woman has earned her crown through cycles of death and rebirth, each one teaching her to trust herself more deeply.
The IVP Woman recognises that transformation isn’t a destination – it’s a way of being. She has learned to dance with change, to find opportunity in crisis, and to trust the intelligence of her own becoming.
In the Tarot, the upright Empress represents abundance, creativity, fertility, and nurturing power. She sits on her throne surrounded by nature, crown upon her head, sceptre in hand – but her power isn’t dominating or controlling. It’s generative, creative, life-giving.
The IVP Woman embodies this Empress energy by:
She has learned that true feminine power isn’t about competing with masculine energy – it’s about fully embodying her own divine blueprint. She leads through inspiration rather than intimidation, influences through authenticity rather than manipulation.
“When you have nothing but your wits and your will”
Core Energy: Creative problem-solving under pressure
The Ingenious Phase begins in crisis. This is where women find themselves when their old life no longer works – when they’ve left the abusive relationship, lost the job, been rejected by family, or faced any situation that demands they figure it out alone.
What She’s Learning:
Common Challenges:
Signs She’s Ready for Phase 2:
“When you have to do it scared, but you do it anyway”
Core Energy: Building courage muscle through consistent action
The Valiant Phase is where the IVP Woman learns that courage isn’t the absence of fear – it’s action in the presence of fear. She has survived the crisis of the Ingenious Phase and now must build the life she actually wants, not just escape what she doesn’t want.
Characteristics of the Valiant Phase:
What She’s Learning:
Common Challenges:
Signs She’s Ready for Phase 3:
“When you stop asking permission and start giving direction”
Core Energy: Authentic leadership and generative power
The Powerhouse Phase is where the IVP Woman fully embodies the upright Empress. She no longer questions her right to be here – she knows she belongs wherever she chooses to show up. This isn’t arrogance; it’s the quiet confidence that comes from having survived, thrived, and integrated her lessons.
Characteristics of the Powerhouse Phase:
What She’s Mastered:
Common Experiences:
The Ongoing Journey: The Powerhouse Phase isn’t a destination – it’s a way of being. The IVP Woman continues to cycle through death and rebirth, but from a place of trust rather than fear. Each new level requires its own becoming.
The IVP Woman understands that becoming isn’t linear. She doesn’t transform once and stay transformed – she evolves through continuous cycles of death and rebirth, each one taking her to a higher level of authenticity and power.
The Cycle Pattern:
Why Multiple Cycles? Each death cycle allows her to shed another layer of conditioning, another limiting belief, another version of herself that was shaped by others’ expectations rather than her own truth. The woman who leaves the abusive marriage is different from the woman who starts the business, who is different from the woman who moves countries, who is different from the woman who writes the book.
Each version is necessary. Each death makes space for more of her authentic self to emerge.
You’ll recognise her by:
She doesn’t:
The IVP Woman has a unique relationship with power because she’s earned it the hard way. She doesn’t wield power over others – she embodies power within herself and uses it to lift others.
Her power is:
She understands that true power comes from alignment with her highest self, not from controlling external circumstances. She influences through example, leads through inspiration, and creates change through being fully herself.
The IVP Woman knows:
If you recognise yourself in these words, you are either an IVP Woman in becoming or already embodying this energy. There is no “behind” or “ahead” – there is only your unique path of becoming.
Ask yourself:
Remember: You were not born to live small, to serve others’ limited vision of who you should be, or to apologise for the light you carry. You were born to become the fullest expression of yourself – ingenious in your solutions, valiant in your courage, and a powerhouse in your impact.
The world needs what you came here to give. Your becoming matters not just for you, but for every woman watching, wondering if she too can transform her life.
The time is now. The woman is you. The throne is waiting.
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